Thursday, January 3, 2013

This Guy...


...And this would be my reason for speaking up and out.  He claims that there were 'ample red flags' of violence in the mentally ill to have stopped the CT shootings.  Apparently not, if this were so, then why did Mr. Lanza feel the need to shoot his mother first?  And I must add, the guns he used where legally acquired by his first victim.

While I agree that better (much, much better) resources should be made immediately to the mentally ill. For one thing, competent mental health care is currently NOT available in my community.  Does that mean I am prepared to storm the local elementary school?  Absolutely not.  I have come far enough in my journey to know when I need professional support.  Yet, there are far too many who have not progressed in this area.  So then, what is the solution?  I believe the solution starts first in the community.  The most important thing we can each do for one another is to start listening to one another.  Second, those who are capable including friends and family members need to start attending the budget meetings of the local city or town councils.  Mental health care is important, it is time we as Americans stop the needless grieving and start assisting the most vulnerable population among us.

My Journey

I have been diagnosed with Major Depressive Disorder.  Not an easy thing, especially in light of the stigma associated with mental illness.  There has been tremendous discussion about mental health of late in light of the gruesome murders in CT.  I have read the opinions of the NRA and especially read with interest the opinions of those who do not struggle with a mental illness.  The voices of those who have a mental illness are silenced, largely due to, I am sure, stigma.  Well, no more.  Unless and until there can be a clear dialogue about people in our communities who need help ARE helped tragedies such as the one in CT can only be expected to continue.  And no, that does not make me of the mind that anything 'good' came of this tragedy or that there was a 'reason' for the slaughter of innocents.  But more on that later.

I have been waiting for 'someone else' to speak up  and out about the mentally ill and their needs.  And then tonight, I nominated me.  Welcome to my journey, hopefully we can learn something along the way.